We went to take neoprints again!! Muahahahahaha! this time's dear idea to have my tummy "to be see" and, 1,2,3 too FAST!! And, gee both of us is TALL and the photo taken both of us looked abit weir-d but pretty nice thou comparing to the last few picture we had taken ... I have put on few kg of weight and also tummy is getting bigger!! hehe~

I wake up pretty late today hehe supposedly I should wake up at 12pm!

We went to catch a movie “Marley and Me” it gives me a deep impression of it because I have read the story repeatedly three times or more when I was in high school it was not that popular at that time then.

Our Lunch





Dear brought me to the Bookstore to look for fairytales story books and yes he did and we have bought as shown on the picture below. It comes with the CD haha talking to baby and letting him to listen to stories its better and best for him. Every day I have been singing A – Z song he’s getting so sick of it. Haha no kicking no respond to me but when something “really new” he’s super active.




Dear yesterday asked me if I want to watch the Hong Kong movie that’s called “Basic Love” when at this moment I am reading the review I find it pretty cool but think again they may be speaking in Cantonese I guess I would wait for the DVD or VCD


After the movie we had our “supper” KFC I still can’t believe I am getting bigger for my tummy and every month I have been taking picture of it never did I realized that I have grow really big but not that big too. As the month approaching I am getting more thrilled about it too!




The "New menu"

ASEAN must push for economic integration, says PM Lee

SINGAPORE: In an interview with CNBC before leaving for the 14th ASEAN Summit in Thailand on Friday, Singapore's Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong said ASEAN must continue to push for closer economic integration, despite recent calls from Malaysia and Indonesia to buy local.

Mr Lee said: "In this global environment, if we give the impression that ASEAN is not fully open for business, I think we will be the losers when a new landscape emerges," he said.

The prime minister said that exporting countries can no longer depend on the US to be the "consumer of things made all over the world", and this "global rebalancing" of trade could lead to a shift towards more investment and consumption in Asia. But he said such measures can only go so far.

"We can't just tell households to go and spend more money because they have their needs now, their needs in the future. When they grow old, they need to save, they need to save for their retirement... and these are structural and life-cycle matters which have to be taken into account," Mr Lee said.
cite from Channelnewsasia.com

*Singapore Government is so different from Hong Kong Government maybe that’s why different countries have their differences

It’s because I remember there were progamme talking about Hong Kong some high rank people kept asking their citizen to buy this and that.

Even though yes they are using 3K and buy things from the Local market instead of Shopping malls? But, so? Does it help their citizen? NO! Economic is so bad and instead asking them to save money they asking them to spend money!

I always complaining to friends about it, I felt that they should think more for their people instead of themselves.

While I was browsing the magazine that I bought last night they were writing about Real Egg and Fake Egg.



Remember when buying eggs please see carefully in case you really did buy the "fake egg" end up like a rubber~

Dear won something hehe! And you know what he wants to get me a WOK! I HAVE BEEN ASKING A WOK FOR MORE THAN 2 YEARS!!! I think my mum will be laughing when she reads this why would I have to wait for more than 2 YEARS to get a BLOODY WOK TO COOK?! I want that because it can cook more yummy delicious food.

Weekend is time for a good exercise and for him not forgetting the DOGS!!!! So fast it’s going to be March!

Rent more vcd~

We had fast food for dinner tonight’s

I waited at home for dear to be home and I realized that last night my hand phone is with him and thus at home waiting for him like a dummy. Right now I am still so full!

And, when he’s home I told him I need to get a breast pads because I am leaking colostrum (the first milk) Laugh out loud! I didn’t know it at first but I was wondering how come wet and leaking of something so check it out realized its leaking colostrum!! Of course he immediately went to get it for me. If not when it leaks when we were outside I will be embarrassed!

Hmmm… guess that’s about today~ shower time~ weather is getting warmer!
--
Somewhere Out there~



Somewhere out there beneath the pale moonlight
Someone's thinking of me and loving me tonight

Somewhere out there someone's saying a prayer
That we'll find one another in that big somewhere out there

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

And even though I know how very far apart we are
It helps to think we might be wishing on the same bright star

And when the night wind starts to sing a lonesome lullaby
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the same big sky

Somewhere out there if love can see us through
Then we'll be together somewhere out there
Out where dreams come true

I want to have a good sun tanning and swimming after birth I want to be a lobster again!

Who on earth will chew gums end up lose a small part tooth?! And, I phoned and sms dear he hurried me to go dental in the hospital or the nearby he ask me to choose. But I need to ask the doctor first I can’t believe pregnancy my teeth becoming so fragile need extra care but, also partly because I have been a habit of chewing on hard things a bad habit I told dear that I will not take any candies for time being so frightening

Now, I am going to prepare myself to go for ultrasound hehe I am pretty excited now since last night baby seems to know that we are going for ultrasound he had been continually kicking me even now I am blogging he never “wakes” up that early surprisingly he did!

I have so many things to blog hehe endlessly blogging everyday’s sometimes blog nonsense haha!!

I just back from hospital my ultrasound takes more than an hour haha!! I am glad that baby’s turning himself but, in the later month he better turn his head downwards not upwards like now he does haha

No wonder I have been feeling “ouch” because he’s in his sitting position and the lady also said that baby’s very naughty. I believe that is called Breech Positions closer to me

But they said he will slowly turn his head downward soon and asked me to EAT MORE! Additional to it I am not allowed to go dental!! Nor to use another weird product

Baby’s hair looks like dear the face “looked chubby” and there his sleeping position same as me he used his arm and hand to cover his face and avoid people looking at him. Hmm let me see he also playing with his fingers sucking his thumb too bad when the lady want to video it he stopped doing that! And I saw his “angry face too” aww~

I whack him to wake switch his position because his leg always love to cross “boy also shy” haha!! They said my skin is thin that’s why I can feel his kicking very clearly and also my tummy’s not big for my month because of my stomach muscle Keke!

Dear will have a tough time haha! Baby’s extremely naughty and stubborn.

I was checking my email and came across Judy’s forwarded email came to realize I have read it when I was in High school! It’s touching and meaningful

To those who are Married, .. Not married .. and soon to be married
MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said,
I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking.
I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question.
This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping.
I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage.
But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew.
I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that
she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger.
I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release.
The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table.
I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce.
She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple:-
'Our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage'.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning.
I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd.
'No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce', she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed.
So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy.

Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain.
From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms.
She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.
I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more.
There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her.
For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning.
This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this.
It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one.
Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin,
that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out.
To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life.
My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly.
I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute.
I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway.
Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step.
Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...
I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said.
I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce.
My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more.
Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until deaths do us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears.
I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.
I smiled and wrote, 'I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart'.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - 'dead'.

Seriously,
Why will you want to marry to someone?
Because you love him/her and want to spent your whole life with him/her.
But, I know there are some people who married to someone because of "money" and then happily saying divorce and then regret.

Seriously,
If a man who proposed to a woman their marriage will last longer the man will treasure the woman more than the woman who propose to the man. Understand the logic?
Woman who tend to propose to the man they demand more, and if you don't want to marry a foreigner and you know that he/she's a foreigner at the first place shouldn't you know it? then why marry? and then divorce?

Seriously,
Marriage is something pure and it's only the starting of the Journey of your Life.
not Relationship. Everyone can have many Relationship that they want but to find The One who you want to be with Ever is never so easy.

Busy bee is a never ending workaholic man!!!

Dinner~




I have received my parents email hehe, but of course I didn't briefly explain to them about the picture i have emailed them. I shall write a pretty details on and email them tomorrow~
And, my elder brother is back to Singapore =( I message him he never reply me =(
I show dear the clip of the ultrasound haha!! from now on I want to have 3D n 4D ultrasound in fact they gave me 2D,3D and 4D so good doesn't it?
Just few more month left baby's will be seeing the Us. hehe
Fruits time for me!

Also at the same time i try to use the new camera self take function it works pretty awesome~ and took about 3 picture with dear for my self keep haha because if i upload it he will say NOT NICE looked so shagg haha

Another shot take, hmm... background is blur out that's e good haha I didn't know that dear gotta me the camera last month there are alot of function to explore just only the recent days i found out
I am excited about tomorrow ultrasound in fact every ultrasound it seems like a paradise to me because it allows me to get closer to him.
Tomorrow will get to see something like the video below haha!! and dear ask me request the doc to write another letter 2 weeks later go ultrasound again and 4D again!! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! I think he more crazy then i do haha~

Phoned the part time maid to come over next week, every Mon, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday it will relieve my loads for the time being.


(My desk always can find candies and then a hell mess of it haha beside that i do my work by "L" table -_-)
At the same time, I was writing a paper about conscious and sub conscious mind history comes in good hands and comparison of different theories. I will be going down to School after tomorrow ultrasound pretty near by but not really need to take a cab down

Many people always thinks that everything can be explained by sub conscious do they actually understands what deep into sub conscious? Hmm *deep thoughts*

It don’t takes a day or two or even weeks to understand it. I remembered one of the professors who taught us about Child psychology he keep on demanding us to buy a book but he did not order for us and we have to search hell for it in all the book stores still we couldn’t and he always remind us “No books you are a piece of rubbish” and I remembered all of us quiet like a mouse. Writing down notes from lecturer rooms doesn’t make you pass unless you read the whole entire book.

I have been researching, reading and also by the notes given by the professors it still mingle in my head for a while because it takes quite sometime to store and to understand it. It’s never easy as what it was thought of

Came to think about it, during class test 2 hours is never enough for me I need additional one hour so does my classmates. But strangely I always have the idea I will fail because it’s tough require a lot of technical names and also a good memory and understanding of what we are learning. Damn and of course when I received back the paper I passed every class test an A if not a B. except some grammars mistakes I love to make

Seriously my English is not as perfect as my two elder brothers and my Dad’s used to be a teacher so yea haha his mathematics is super! I still remembered when I was secondary one my English score above 80 and mathematics is above 70 but don’t know why when secondary 3 to 4 my mathematics drops haha strange doesn’t it?

Chinese is always a shit case for me.

Alright so much of that but I want to eat spicy noodle again it’s so delicious!
And yes dear accompanied me to have spicy noodle again! hooray!
this time it's not crab instead fish but, doesn't worth the money to eat! Full of bones.
tomorrow should eat something more plain~

rent more show to watch

Mango~

"American ginsheng"

No seaweed so seaweed chips instead haha

Gum gum

coconut juice

In the next month or so our house will be full of baby diapers!! and milk powder :x
checked out the price just now hoho and the diapers so cute got this cute cartoon in printed on it :x

Last night dear was hungry so i accompany him to 7-11 and get himself a pizza

and also some snacks for myself

All the food goes to baby but not me! how come huh?!

While sleeping tossing around and enduring the snooze from dear, baby also kicks me
so end up i took a photo of the ceiling~ looked spooky doesn't it? it's because he needs to sleep with LIGHTS ON! but i am the opposite! I need it to be SWITCH OFF!
anyway that blue light came from the insect killer

Come come~

Mr Bolie~

Bolie

Bolie and Snoopy have gotta their shower last night by dear

Mr Bolie loves to take picture~ he knows when the time i will snap his big naught face

Snoopy~ dear always says she has a fox face

chins is Hidding inside a strawberry!